The best option would be not to share any photos at all, but if you must share your photos, only do so with like-minded people and people who understand your stance on the issue. Those who see no problem in sharing their photos with the public would most likely do the honours of sharing yours too.
You are also well in your rights to ask photographers, fashion designers, and makeup artists not to post your photo(s) online. If they already have, you could send a DM politely asking that they take the content down: “Hello! Your work was great, but I’m not comfortable having my photo(s)/video(s) out in the public. I’d appreciate it if you could take it/them down.”
It is totally natural that we feel a little bad since we gave our consent in the first place, but knowledge is for rectification. We shouldn’t feel guilty for trying to set things right with our Creator and should concentrate on the bigger picture.
Creating a small ‘ladies only’ audience to share with is a good step for the one struggling, but while that might seem like a good idea, it is not entirely secure as long as the photos/videos are online. While the account might be private, that of one of your followers could get hacked and before you realize it, a stranger would’ve gathered photos/videos of you without the hijab. Nonetheless, it is great a step, but it shouldn’t be the final destination.
It is very important that as we acknowledge and appreciate how far we’ve come, we remember that we’re not done yet — there is always room for improvement. You are never a finished product.
The goal is to die trying; to be a step ahead of yesterday.